A few reasons why I read and write romance

“I like reading novels because it provides insight into human behaviour.” (Claire Danes)

We learn about people by meeting them; by watching them. In historical novels, the people we meet face different challenges to our own, have been moulded by a different culture, must react to a different context.

But they are still people. I want to read about people who are real to me while I’m in the book, and stay with me when I close it. And I want to read about romance, because people expose who they are through how they behave in relationships, and never more so than in a romantic relationship that involves every type of intimacy: physical, emotional, intellectual, spiritual

I know I’ve captured a character when my readers discuss their motives and their beliefs. It’s enormously thrilling when someone explains to me why one of my characters thought, felt, or did something, and I have an ‘Aha’ moment because the thought is new to me but they’re right.

One of the nicest compliments I’ve ever received was a comment on my Duchess of Haverford, who appears in most of my Regency books and the Victorian novel I’m writing with Mariana Gabrielle. “I love the duchess,” one of my readers said. “I’m sure she is in Heaven.”

I read to be entertained

“These boys in books are better.” (Carrie Hope Fletcher)
Undercover cops, billionaires, search and rescue heroes, knights, dukes, earls, handsome rogues, pirates; what’s not to like? Let’s face it; gorgeous men are hot, whether in cravats and knit pantaloons or a smart evening suit or jeans and t-shirt. And hot men who are considerate and respectful are even hotter.

Fletcher’s song points out that real life men can’t live up to the standard set in novels. And any girl who stays single till she finds someone as good as her book boyfriend is in for a long wait. But any girl can pick up a book and spend time with Mr Perfect.

“I read for pleasure and that is the moment I learn the most.” (Margaret Atwood)
Reading taught me that the kind are rewarded, that perseverance will win in the end, that love is worth striving for. That you can start a fire with spectacles and that sharks can’t swim backwards. That lying on a frozen over pond spreads your weight so you are less likely to break through.

Ideas; concepts; principles; facts. I’ve learned all of those from reading. I read for pleasure. And I write books that I hope others will read for pleasure; books with strong determined heroines, loving heroes, compelling story lines, and convincing challenges.

I read to escape, to take a micro-holiday

“I have never known any distress that an hour’s reading did not relieve.” (Charles de Montesquieu)
I lived more than 50 years with an undiagnosed condition that gave me chronic tiredness and constant pain. In that time, I raised four children, two with serious health conditions, and fostered two others. We entered adolescent hell with one of them and didn’t emerge for ten years. Reading allowed me the break I needed.

When people say that  romance novels (or science fiction, or fantasy, or mystery novels) are escapism, I agree. Any book that captures your imagination allows you to escape whatever distress you may be in. The best books strengthen and inform you, sending you back into reality better able to deal with your challenges. But even the most flagrant chewing gum for the mind gives you time to recharge.

“You can travel the world and never leave your chair when you read a book.” (Sherry K. Plummer)
And not just the world! I want to go somewhen else for my book holiday. Travel, so we are told, broadens the mind. In futuristic or historical romances, I am able to travel to another time. In the hands of a good writer, I experience the sights, the sounds, the smells, and the stories, and all without the risk of plague, pressganging, or death by tooth infection.

“Reading is a discount ticket to everywhere.” (Elizabeth Hardwick)
I can share any type of life in a novel. I can be a nurse or a lawyer; a pirate or a harem dancer; a pathologist or a horse trainer. I can dream of a life of leisure, with nothing to do but flirt with rakes and dance at balls. I’d undoubtedly hate it in practice. I like being busy and useful. But I can have that in a book, and then walk away, back to my real life.

“There’s no real ending. It’s just the place where you stop the story.” (Frank Herbert)
I like happy endings. Some other writers like tragic endings, or even no ending at all. In my view, happy endings are better. Every writer has to choose where to start and where to stop the story, so why not choose the bit that feels good?

The romance novel’s ‘happily ever after’ is not about perfect resolution of all problems; it’s about convincing the reader that the protagonists will support each other through whatever problems arise.

I read to learn to write better

“I believe that writing is derivative. I think good writing comes from good reading.” (Charles Kuralt)
Reading good books gives us the sound of good language. It teaches us how plots work, how to show character rather than telling it, how to make choices that show the theme of the book, how to use words to create atmosphere, how to write dialogue that sizzles.I believe I need to do two things to be a good writer. Read a lot. Write a lot. That’s all.


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7 Responses to A few reasons why I read and write romance

  1. Lovely ideas, all gathered into one place, thank you so much, Jude!

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  2. E. Ayers says:

    I love that picture!

    And what you wrote is so true. Yes, the men in books are often so much better.

    I read to escape the mundane. I want to be entertained. I want to laugh. I want that mini vacation. I want to use my mind. I want something different. I want to learn something new.

    And life is too short to read a book that I don’t enjoy and there are too many great books out there waiting to be read.

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  3. Carol says:

    I can’t imagine the world without books. A good or great story that suspends time for a short while, can carry’s me away into a character’s take on life. I love twist and turns and surprises the story impresses on my state of mind. Great post!

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    • judeknight says:

      I can’t either. Thinking about the number of people in the world and in history that have never had access to the magic of books boggles my mind.

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  4. Jill James says:

    Jude, wonderful post. I write romance because I believe I found Prince Charming and I want others to believe they can find one too.

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